release all fears, anxieties and doubts surrounding the twin flame connection. Because of the deep bond you both share, it often happens without you two realizing it. You know in your heart that its going to happen soon. The current energies expressing within the Unification Process are of Surrender, Self Empowerment, True Desire for "the Divine Counterpart" and to allow the TRUE Expression through the UNION and "NOT through" the SEPARATION. Your reading has shone a great lot of light on my situation. I started believing he was married. The sheer fact that youre reading this is a sign that youre on your way to surrendering to the path ahead. Something I learned recently is that the "surrender" stage is not something that we force to happen. You realize that you need to improve yourself, for change should come deep within yourself. You just have to see that running and chasing is going nowhere and will continue on and on if you let fear get away from you. When it feels far from normal breaking down every human construct I ever had. You need to rest, and you must recuperate; being refreshed and full of energy is vital for what is ahead. We sometimes include products we think are useful for our readers. We experience this feeling of peace together, and it is a surprising feeling when you have been through so much together. After it was all said & done I felt that was all he did was play games with me. It certainly never happened in my 31 year journey. Its something every twin flame has to deal with, and youre well equipped to do it. You finally take the time to eat right and exercise more, among other beautiful things. Theres no clear timeframe for this stage and from the many people Ive spoke to Ive seen it varya lot. To do so would be like trying to jump straight from A to C. That was something he wanted me to know. Yet Im now telling myself its not real. . For if you are not happy and content with your life, nor am I! It is a consequence of internal work. This time with your partner is restorative. Its not a feeling that dissipates quickly. As psychologist Juliana Breines, Ph.D. summarizes it: Without sufficient self-love, were not capable of truly loving others.. Is everything hes done normal? Nothing worked. Now that theyre gone, you finally have the time to prioritize yourself. I learned to be okay with my 31 year separation from my first TF. Then afterwards it grew worse. Or maybe Im crazy for accepting all of this craziness so easily. Surrender to the process at this stage is so delicious and comfortable that you can not help but fall into it like a freshly made bed. Its about focusingon yourself and your own journey instead. It starts out very intensely (the running and the chasing, when all fear patterns come up), and smoothens more and more in the course of the process. Theyre your mirror soul, after all. Thissometimes leads to doubt on your journey. When your brain gets overloaded, it starts to look for ways out. For all I know he was, he is now How do we get passed that? The better I understand - the more accurate your reading will be. Once we detach from your twin flame we move away from the runner and chaser phase and towards realgenuine healing. They are incredibly knowledgeable about the dynamics of twin flame relationships. Its low vibrational. I hadnt dated for 11 years. The connection had its differences compared to the person who I thought was my TF. Instead, there is a release of pressure because you know you have progressed out of the war zone. I just surrendered someone I thought was my TF of 31 years. Couldnt he have manned up & confronted me? I want so badly to surrender, I have in many ways, but then I go right back in to this version because of his actions & my own inner fears. Just like helping my patients, I like to empower & motivate readers with research-backed articles. We cant attempt to rush through the surrender stage or force it to happen toget it over with. At least I have enough respect not to do that. During the height of the runner-chaser stage, you may end up developing a lot of self-doubts. You may have found it hard to pick what restaurant to dine in or what tiles you need for the bathroom. Youll need to let go of control and expectations, for one thing. At some point along the way, the harmonizing is going to manifest your connection in the 3D. You can chalk these feelings up to the robust and undeniable twin flame energy you both have. The energy only grew stronger as our time together grew. According to her, she is just doing what she thinks she should be doing. I wanted to die. They find it easier to distance themselves rather than work on themselves. Every single twin flame Ive spoken to (and thats alot) goes through the pain and struggle of constantly thinking about their twin flame. The surrender to your twin flame status makes that bond become a part of your conscious awareness and thereby strengthens the energetic bond. The sheer incontrovertible reality that youre studying it is a sign that youre on your way to surrendering to the trail forward. So I continued to work out like a mad woman. Maybe thats my masculinity talking I DO confront people & things in my life if Im confused about them. And the biggest reason to accept the surrender to it all is that there is no other way to continue. This is why we call it the surrender stage. I release all control and surrender to divin It may take you months (even years) to realize what youve done is wrong, and once you do, everything changes for the better. One of the finest signs of maturity is an urge to organize your life. Idk if I can get passed this otherwise. On the higher levels you both knowexactly why this is happening but how that manifests on the 3D is going to vary wildly. open the way for effortless flow of . You become pregnant with love, this makes you want to cook, organize your home, and groom yourself. Posting about it on Quora, just to be responded to by my REAL Twin Flame, that was fun. I think mostly I write to figure out my own journey. Note: You can still work on manifesting your twin flame while surrendering to the journey. So Im confused. I normally didnt care what men thought, they could take it or leave it. Its natural and simply an aspect of this path which you need to process and then let go of. Regardless of what stage of it you are at, twin flame reunion will always involve a twin flame surrender stage. We met, things were crazy with us. You might not know it, but you may already be exhibiting (or experiencing) these 12 signs of chaser surrender: As the chaser in the relationship, youve always been hell-bent on getting your twin flame back. Yet I know he is. It can freak a person out knowing what I now know. Hes from another state than myself. I'm Raye, a nurse licensed in both the Philippines and the US. It felt like a divorce letting my first TF go, until I surrendered, then I was at complete peace with it ALL. It is the chaser who needs to surrender first, you are not admitting defeat, nor are you going to lose your twin flame. The one thing he could never read was my heart, because I blocked it off from him. It was completely different, and the gifted spiritual advisor there really helped me understand the pattern of the twin flame chaser surrender. Other expectations depend on the particulars of each story of the counterparts. Thats some serious responsibility. I wonder if my current TF feels that about me now after what he wrote to me. I was able to experience not solely the strength and wisdom of the masculine but also the loving and compassionate side. He was also thirteen years youthful than myself. If you do that to me, Ill walk. Even ended up homeless. Id say it to myself then just as quickly dismiss it. I used Quora a lot. I just wanted more & he refused me. You open your self and be willing to participate in the most profound types of healing. Focus on yourself. Have you met someone and had a magnetic attraction that is unexplained and different from other experiences? FAR from him. Its not like I was driving to where he lived watching his every move. He had his opportunity repeatedly to open up to me about his real feelings & never did. Another downside to the runner-chaser dynamic is that the latter often lets themselves go. In the past Id break it off with people before they had a chance to get to know me & vice versa. And while it may be painful to be away from them, time is no match for your bond. Your Divine Masculine Twin Flame has his own role in this Twin Flame process, which whilst different to yours is equally important. Quite the opposite in fact. So the surrender process is likely to feel frustrating at different points along the way. Surrendering to your twin flame path is a multistage process. But I was now perfectly fine with waiting. I excused it. Once you manage to fully surrender to your sacred twin flame mission and you make progress towards ascension, you will experience a sense of fulfillment and bliss like youve never experienced before. With this new and improved personal power, you get to improve yourself more. I mentioned them earlier. The more were in a place to concentrate on our personal path and our own therapeutic, the much less well give consideration to theirs. This was all I needed was more confusion with the person I thought was my real TF. I can help pinpoint if you've met your twin flame already, if you're in a relationship with a false twin flame or what you need to do to meet them if you haven't already. 1.) I feel like that was one of major points to his letter to me & letting me know I was hurting him by believing this other guy was my TF. The soul bond is always going to exert pressure on each twin flame to achieve merging frequency, to be in contact, to be in your twin flames presence at the very least in spiritual terms if not physically as well. I was shown different scenarios of people I could choose to be with over him, in each scenario I always came back to him every time. It isalways a step in the right direction but that doesnt mean youre going to immediately reach union. Twin flame divine feminine is a powerful force to be reckoned with because it is the vehicle of your soul's connection with the divine feminine. His voice was really strong for a time until I told him to leave me alone because Ive been really upset at what he wrote me publicly & after reading it, I felt he was putting all the blame onto me for us ending & that I wasnt the beautiful person he thought I was. fully trust the divine timing + unfolding of the twin flame connection. I missed just talking to him when we werent talking. Now that the masculine is rising, the feminine is asked to hold space for them. No Im not, am I just supposed to believe well magically magnetize each other? I ended up in a very abusive marriage. I let go of all outcomes and expectations. I saw him as trying to win me like a video game. In the surrender of the twin flame journey, one of the parties (99% feminine energy) slowly begins to realize that they are doing everything they can and starting to enter a dead end. But its all on divine timing, and youre going to experience it, not set it. An important one. The main elements of this process are time and privacy. This, after all, is a critical element for an eventual twin flame reunion. I never allowed men to have my personal phone number because I despised being bothered by men, hit on by them, but there I was giving him my number & feeling excited about it. I understand this journey can & will turn your entire life upside-down, you miss the persons physical presence so deeply, you feel like youre drowning without them. Its not that youve stopped caring about your twin flame you still do. You wouldnt believe the things Ive experienced this last week since admitting to myself that he IS NOT my karmic partner but my actual Twin Flame. My Twin Flame Journey of Separation, Surrender, and Release is an enlightening memoir that presents the deepest pain and highest love along V.C. But couldnt he have come to me in a less public way to wake me up to who he really is to me? If you take a few moments to tell me about your journey so far, I'll send you a free twin flame reading to help guide you onward towards union. We could never get to know each other until I let him completely go. Everythi. This is where we find one or both of them surrendering to fear. I felt he was proving to me each time we were together that I wasnt worth taking in public or seeing on a regular basis. To get me to pull my head out of my $$ to notice what he was doing & I only ignored him. For one thing, the runner needs to surrender to the fact that all that shadow work and karma clearing must be done. That is if you resist the urge to fight against it. So that construct IS getting in my/our way of unification. Meeting this guy felt like I was repeating history because I was certain my TF & I were about to reunite when this guy pops up. You no longer care what your twin flame thinks about your hobbies or pastimes. As withmost of the twin flame journey, theres noeasy way to do this. Everyone I know just went through the absolute worse year of their lives, most people on the earth did & believe me, for myself I really struggled emotionally.. Yeah.. Talk about a slap in the face to wake me up! There are no shortcuts in the twin flame journey and we dont want to slow things down. Im not going to tell you this happens overnight. Youre doing that makes you happy because you know in your heart that you deserve them. It took him a few months to get me to go out with him, to lastly meet him in person. Whether theyre consciously aware of it or notsomething is going to drive them to improve themselves. I believed I was in that phase, I forced myself to accept circumstances, fight my ego, declare forgiveness. But its created a lot of memory loss for me each time I get the IV therapy. I will give you a reading to help you along your journey. Period. Maybe thats too much to ask when part of me is in total peace to all of this & the other part of me is still fighting it for all its worth. Your instinct is to nest. The timeline and process are going to be a little different for everyone but the surrender process is a key part of the road to a physical union for everyone and while the twin flame experience is unique were all human and there are some tried and tested ways to focus on our soul journey. I felt he liked watching me better than being with me physically. As a twin flame chaser, youre bound to grow weary of the chase. I tried to get him to, he started to in the end, but by then it was too late, I didnt believe him anymore. I blamed myself for losing him in the first place, I wasnt going to allow it to happen twice. Heal it I did, to the point I no longer see him that way. He had me that freaked out this entire last year. You deserve to pat your back for doing a great job of growing. 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